âTo love and to be loved must be the aspirationânot marriage.â - Dwayne Walker
One of the lessons I've learned is: Just because âeveryoneâ does things a certain way, doesnât mean that way will work for me. Just because something doesnât work for âeveryoneâ doesnât mean it wonât be perfect for me. Evaluate everything. Disregard what works for others, to determine what works for me. What works for others is nothing but noiseâan impediment to really listening to myself. Making decisions because itâs what others do is the surest way to end up in the wrong life.
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